Okay so i was thinking. and i noticed.. most of the time your better off NOT knowing something. But the flesh is weak , SO eager and in reality you could have lived w/out certain information. For example. A family member might have said something about you to another family member. THEN they want to tell you... (KNOWING that’s its going to ruffle some feathers..) Once that information enters your mind. It’s NOT going anywhere .. that’s it. It’s embedded. You’ll either do one or two things.
- Confront them.
- Don’t say anything about it and hold it in.
Confronting causes confrontation, holding in develops dislike/ hate. Or just gets your mind running and ticking. So now what? You now start to wish you never receive the information at ALL. So the questions is.. Can you resist? Is it THAT important? Do we have to always have something to gossip about? I know we all want to have something to talk about and discuss here and there.. But is it all worth it?
Today I make a change for myself.. I’m watching what I allow people to transfer into my thoughts. Thats one thing my mother always told us growing up. It's funny how all the little things you learn growing up start to come into play the older you get..and the more you live. when your young you don't fully understand all the time but you live and you learn.. or thats what your supposed to do. I wont receive all the negative gossip and unnecessary information. It’s just trouble.
- Kelly Bre .
